Yes, this is written from one woman, through her experience talking to other woman, asking the questions, going to sex-positive events and through personal experience. What we, as heterosexual woman, need is: 1) To be heard a. Not just listen, not to fix or advise, but to really hear what we are saying actively. b. Once and a while throw back a line we just said, to let us know you are actually grasping what we are putting down. c. Hold that space! Holding space for